Why do things like this always happens to me? Should i have a boyfriend?

For the last three months i have been getting in trouble, for my boyfriend. My birthday is coming up and i will be 16. My parents don't seem to understand that though. I really do like this boy a lot in fact i might even love him. My parents don't like my talking to boys because they say its not my time yet. My phone got took because i was cursing and my dad read my messages and told me i got myself into more trouble. I understand about the cursing part but its the boy part i don't understand. btw my dad is a preacher. I tried talking to them but all they have to say is its not my time. I don't want him to try and talk to my dad because he isn't going to want to hear it. If he talk to my mom she is going to say its not my time. I cry myself to sleep every night because i miss him so much. My mom said if he really like me he would wait on me and he said he would. That was one of the nicest things that he did, but i don't want him to wait because it's like im going to be holding him back. My mom said wait till next summer but that's a year and im afraid i can't wait that long because im going to miss him so much. He never asked me to have sex with him or nothing and i am still a virgin.All i want is my boyfriend my phone and my parents trust back. Will some one help me please it feels like im dying.HELP